This is how I am and I'm debating on whether it's a mentality I should change. I'm sorry if this offends anyone, that's not my intent in asking this.
I find chubby and/or fat guys and girls extremely unattractive. For one, it just looks bad. It looks sloppy and lazy like they are not motivated to get off their butt and lose weight. There are certain clothes that don't look as good on them because their gut is in the way. During sex, I'm sorry, but the wobbly fat just looks bad. It's not attractive at all and it's gross when it collects sweat and then you get flinged in the eye with their sex funk because it's got little places to collect and build up between their rolls.
Do I sound supericial and shallow? I'm not at all, it's just I'm realizing I find larger people highly unattractive. I run track, dance, and work out so fitness is very important to me. Do you think I need to change the way I think?
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Not being physically attracted to them is perfectly fine, you can't control that. Dismissing them emotionally as in not even being friends is quite shallow.3