well here's my question I work with my ex so we see each other at least 3 days out of the week so for the past 3 months since the break up she will look at me or stare at me but won't talk when I was trying to talk she was real cold and didn't really talk just responded so I stopped we have been nc for about ten days no text or stuff like that but its been like a month since we talked we ignore each other if I see her I just walk away if we are next to each other I don't talk or even look at her but I can see her threw the corner of my eye looking at me and friends tell me she is always looking at me and when I leave laughing or happy she seems mad why but the truth is I still love her with all my heart and it kills me to not talk but when I try she's so cold why does she stare at me if she is acting so cold
im so confused cause when we were talking she acted like she just wanted me to stop but now she looks at me and acts mad when I seem happy look I've been in more than one relationship and so has she but I'm not used to these mind games she said she didn't want a relationship at the moment so I said fine but then she started text me and would just stop but now nothing but looks and its so hard for me to know what she expects from me of course I would love to have her back but I'm confused with this
so in everyone opinion what is my best option should I try to talk again even if she acts so cold when I do or should we just stay ignoring each other of course I want her back in my life at least if it starts slow just hi it would be nice but she acts like if she hates me when we do talk and she's been kind of trying to make me jealous talking about guys and stuff I do not want to lose her forever but is all hope lost thanks for the help
so here's an update so I spoke to my ex and asked why she was staring at me not like that but that's the jist of it she told me that she wants us to talk but didn't know how to ask so we talked and she stated that she could not understand why if I loved her so much I wouldn't want her in my life even as friends what do you guys think is going on now
The best thing that can come out of this is to sit down and have a genuine conversation with her. Ask her to have a talk with you, tell her exactly how you feel, and maybe this will allow her to open up and explain why she has been behaving the way she has.
You won't really know what's going on until you actually talk to her about it. But please try to be gentle and open minded while youa re speaking with her, don't let your emotions get the best of you.