I have a mean co-worker who doesn't like me because she says I look like a girl and I'm a grown woman. I can't help that. What to do?
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Lol! She's insecure.
What to do? Accept the fact that she doesn't like you which is okay because honestly her liking you doesn't seem worth very much. She sounds like an insecure, old bitch who doesn't have the emotional capacity to put aside her painfully low self-esteem for the sake of a postive work environment. You don't need someone like that in your life :)
You need to be strong and not let her bitchiness get to you. If I were you, I'd respond with a sly "I've had no complaints!" with a smirk then maybe add something like "It really doesn't mattter HOW you look, it's about how OLD you behave. I may look young but I act my age unlike you." That's what I would say. Bitchy people like her don't stop with their comments unless you get as fiery or more firery with them. I'd tell her that and if she keeps making nasty comments, then direct the issue to your manager and just try to stay away from her. At the end of the day, you're there to do a job. She's not a significant part of your life. I suggest putting her in her place then treating her like air and only interacting with her when you absolutely have to :)0