She never initiated anything with me; in fact I usually had a hard time getting her to even look at me when we were passing by each other. It was always me coming up to her, me texting her, me acting happy to see her. It was very easy to make her laugh and she seemed to enjoy herself; but she NEVER initiated, never came up and talked to me on her own. the last straw was when I wished her happy birthday in person (because I remembered from when she told me when it was) and that didn't cause her to start initiating.
So I stopped doing it. Even though she's quiet and shy, I've seen her initiate with other people. After about a week of stopping, she smiled at me a couple times when I walked by; I smiled back, but didn't stop to talk. Since she's so good-looking, she can talk to anyone if she wants (I've seen her talk to other guys on her own, make her own effort).
Is it a good thing I stopped putting so much effort into her? it's going on 3 weeks now that we haven't talked.
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It's quite possible that she liked you. I find some similarities in her behavoir as with my behavoir. I find talking to guys who are freinds or I don't like quite easy, but when it comes to a guy I like, I don't know what to do. Often times I hope that he will start the conversations. I have started initiating with this guy I like, but I have to plan it out and it's difficult and I find myself stuttering. She could have liked you and just been really shy about it and didn't know what to do. But I don't know. If you like her, you should talk to her. Make her feel comfortable around her, and eventually she will start initiating something on her own.0