this confidence BS they tell us is a lie . I'm going to die alone :'(
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u are true dude ...they want looks only...1
People don't look at your personality first. People judge you automatically by your looks and then try to get to know your personality. But the second they don't like your looks, they don't get to know you. That's how reality is. And its not only with girls. People in general.
I agree that confidence is BS, but I also think girls don't just care about looks. I think different girls care about different things.
I've met many "hot" guys who did nothing for me whatsoever.
No girls do not only care about looks and you will not die alone. I like a guy and he's good looking to me but I love his personality because he can make me laugh. I'm never bored when he's around. Some girls DO base their crushes on looks but they might (hopefully) grow out of that stage because honestly if that's what they want to base their relationships off of I seriously worry for them :/ anyways, it's actually mostly GUYS that base who they like off of looks. I've heard guys talking about why they wouldn't date a girl and it was usually because she wasn't pretty in their eyes. Looks shouldn't matter! You won't die alone! You'll find a girl who loves you no matter how you look like :D
You are not going to die alone. Consider it a blessing that those women have rejected you because they are obviously lacking a quality that you desperately want. Acceptance. Be as confident as you want but people are still vain and ignorant and are looking for the hollywood ideal of love.
I think personality can really change looks. Look at Will Ferrell, he is a super ugly guy but a lot of people feel happy around him and he's kind of got a charm to him. His wife isn't bad looking and he's just an all around cool guy. If he never had that personality towards him he'd literally be looked at as an ugly hobo. You can say the fame is the reason for all that but because of his good personality, he would never had been famous at all. Everyone is control of their confidence, we just like to point fingers at others when things aren't working out well for ourselves. Sometimes you just need to go out of your comfort zone and not care about what others think of you. Its a really hard and uncomfortable thing to do but when you start becoming more of yourself or who you like yourself to be, that's when things change. You have to be a little imaginative with your personality or you will just end up to be just another ordinary guy.There's no doubt looks can help you out to gain attention but if you work with your own god given self and look in the mirror and ask your self if you as a stranger would wanna date this guy then you need to find a way to make yourself worthy for YOURSELF. Don't always try and do things for the benefit of others, once you feel comfortable with yourself and feel you have done as much as you can to better your looks and personality, THEN is when the confidence starts to come. Its the confidence you have for yourself and not others. People like others who enjoy themselves and they like to be apart of that. So don't get caught up in statistics or blogs or research because that's all you'll ever amount to then. Fix what you want to fix and just be grateful for what you got. Its no secret that some people have it natural but there have been many many people who have become beautiful successful people from sheer hard work and positivity. Do your best and be happy.
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they care about looks and personality equally for the most part
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