I just saw a question about what hair color you prefer
best on the opposite gender and I saw couple
guys say "they didn't care, because long hair is
more important" And, much like the height think
with women, I don't get the long hair thing with men?
Isn't are own right to look the way we want, without
worrying no one will be attracted to or love us because
I mean how would a guy feel if a girl said " Babe, I need
you to grow your hair down to your butt and dye it this
certain color" How many of you guys would do that, none
See I've always questioned myself, but even more so
because of what I see on here. Like I want to have
a relationship and fall in love, SO badly. But, than I
come on here read certain things and I wonder "what
the hell is even the point? I basically have two choices.
Either be myself and look the way I look, but risk never
finding love because of it and end up being an old maid. Or
mold myself into what men apparently "think" women
should look like, but risk hating myself and feeling like a fraud for
being someone I'm not and looking a way that I'm not
happy of comfortable with" I mean I shouldn't have to
live that way! No woman or man should have to live
We have freedom of speech, why can't we have the
freedom to look and be the way we want without
worrying constantly that it's "not good enough?"
So, what do you think? Don't you think would should have
the right to look the way we want, since we have to
live with it forever?
myself and how I feel. This question is NOT about me. It's just a
general question. Because I never nor will ever understand how
height and hair length could be such an epic deal. I get we all
have prefences, that's fine. But, let's not act like it's that way or
no way at all! Basically, I just wish people were more open minded
that's all, just my opinion.
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you do have the right to look how you want. no one cares what you choose to do. you just have to accept that not everyone will like how you look. that's life. your logic makes no sense. you are acting as if opinion is law. just because many guys like a way something looks doesn't mean you are obligated to do it.
you have freedom to look how you want JUST as much as you have freedom of speech. you can say whatever you want and not everyone will like it, and that's life. you can dress or look how you want and not everyone will like it either.
people are entitled to their own opinions. if others don't like how you dress, that's not their fault. they shouldn't be obliged to like your look just because you do.0