You can only pick 2. Save the b.s. about how you want someone whose average looking, with average intelligence, and moderate emotional stability. You can only pick two traits for a boyfriend/girlfriend. Which are most important?
Definately 1.) Being a good kind hearted sweet person we have to many fake two faced mean people in this world good kind hearted and sweet people are rare. and 2.) being attracted to her mentally and physically.
Out of those two I would say 1. Emotionally Stable & 2. Good looking. Sadly I do need to be physically attracted to him/her, but the most important out if the three options you gave is that they are stable.