I don't understand it. And I'm confused as all hell. He wanted to date me and then after the first night tells me he doesn't have a lot to invest because he's still damaged. that's fine, I'm not looking to get married. I'm looking to laugh, enjoy his company, etc. All seems well for weeks. and I'm a nurturer to a fault so if there was anything he needed? right. I'm a good girl, which nobody believes exists.
Anyway, there's zero warning that we're going from 60 to 0.
He went from chatting a bit each day to silence. Texts like "you make me happy" apparently forgotten..and he;s the one who sent it.
Its been 5 days and he couldn't be any less responsive if he was dead. Seriously. I tried twice, one of them even asking if he was OK just to let me know... crickets. ( I finally checked fb to see if there was any activity, and there was, so I know he's breathing).
But, I've never been the kind of chick who freaks out, stalks or chases a guy... so, unless he finally gets back to me, I won't know what the hell happened.
I just can't stand that its got me second guessing myself.. I'm not insecure at all, and I'm not overly emotional. I'm honest to a fault and I think I deserve that in return..
but, what is he thinking? and is this normal? because I've never been in this position and I have no idea what to make of it.
I know that girls/guys think differently and I know that we are the emotional ones...