I don't understand it. And I'm confused as all hell. He wanted to date me and then after the first night tells me he doesn't have a lot to invest because he's still damaged. that's fine, I'm not looking to get married. I'm looking to laugh, enjoy his company, etc. All seems well for weeks. and I'm a nurturer to a fault so if there was anything he needed? right. I'm a good girl, which nobody believes exists.
Anyway, there's zero warning that we're going from 60 to 0.
He went from chatting a bit each day to silence. Texts like "you make me happy" apparently forgotten..and he;s the one who sent it.
Its been 5 days and he couldn't be any less responsive if he was dead. Seriously. I tried twice, one of them even asking if he was OK just to let me know... crickets. ( I finally checked fb to see if there was any activity, and there was, so I know he's breathing).
But, I've never been the kind of chick who freaks out, stalks or chases a guy... so, unless he finally gets back to me, I won't know what the hell happened.
I just can't stand that its got me second guessing myself.. I'm not insecure at all, and I'm not overly emotional. I'm honest to a fault and I think I deserve that in return..
but, what is he thinking? and is this normal? because I've never been in this position and I have no idea what to make of it.
some people think its him just pulling away because its too comfortable and because he was hurt in his last two relationships. well, I've been solo for two years because of how hurt I was in my last relationship so I get being "scared" and feeling vulnerable.. but I'm totally at a loss as to how I didn't get so much as a mindless text saying "yeah, I'm all set" or... something. anything instead of nothing.
I know that girls/guys think differently and I know that we are the emotional ones...