Girls I ask you in particular; I know I am one of the best people in talking and caring and joking... I am pretty popular and also very smart... The only thing that I still don't know for sure is how people receive the first sight of my face (I have an athletic body :p).
So how much would it matter to you that Mr perfect won't look so good?
I think you are attractive. Looks doesn't matter as much to me. In fact, I wasn't attracted to my bf's physical appearance at first sight. (I used to prefer caucassians). He became my best friend and the nicest guy I know, and then we became a couple.
Looks matter as much as they matter to you. If you want a good looking woman and you won't settle for average or ugly women then you have to be good looking or you won't get anywhere. If you are happy with the ugliest woman in the world it probably won't matter even if you are very ugly.