I have no idea if I am just ahead of my years or I am totally missing something. What do you look for in a male companion? I have a sense of humor, the body, the looks, the personality. I am a gentleman by nature and I am "built" down below. What is it that I could be missing?
Girls like all that you listed, but you also have to get to know them. Some may be shy, some may feel intimidated, some may not know you like them. You can't make someone like you in the way you seek, of course-- but for every woman who does not wish to pursue a relationship, there is one that feels attraction (but might not vocalize it).
It is important to be kind, humble, approachable, amiable, understanding, and to do things together. Don't be too revealing about your wants and expectations in the beginning (she will likely feel uncomfortable), and go about befriending her with as little pressure as possible.
-Has a good head on his shoulders (has good priorities, has a plan for his life, etc...)
That's what I look for. I also like a guy who is reliable and mature.
If you are having issues getting a girl, it might be due to your approach. How are you approaching women? Where are you meeting women? How are you presenting yourself to women? These are all important aspects that might be hurting you if you are sending out bad vibes. You may not even intend to, but you need to be aware so you can change how you are being perceived.