if they were to go to a party and she wore high heels she would be taller than him, would a guy not even consider such a girl? also if a girl is heavier than him and he is skinny and short than other guys?
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I'm six foot two, so that doesn't happen very often. Still, no, it's not a deal breaker at all. It's not even a deal breaker for me if by some chance she's even TALLER than me. (Believe it or not, it's actually happened.) Still, I can only speak for myself. Some guys might get insecure about that. Some might not. Some prefer short girls. Some don't care one way or another. I'll tell this, however. If he considers it a deal breaker, on height alone, then consider yourself lucky, because that's shallow as all fuck.
Now the heavier thing might be different. I think for most people, more people are pickier about heavy people. I think perhaps even more common for a guy to be snobby if his girl is heavier than him. So that might be a bigger issue with more people than the height thing. Still, again, if he's gonna consider that a deal breaker, then we're right back to him being fucking shallow, so yeah, consider yourself lucky it doesn't last.
Anyway, no matter what, don't let this kind of stuff get to you. your height is not something you can effect, and your weight is more or less who you are (although you can change that, within reason) so don't let things like appearance be so important to you, or anyone else. If someone is really that shallow, as I said twice before, you're better off. Just be yourself, love yourself for what you are, and what you got, and never settle for anything less than a guy who loves you all the same, as for what you are. No less!
You'll be alright. Don't worry about this stuff. Just be tough, strong, and don't let the bastards phase you. Carry on!2