what girls looking for in guys?
How you can feel this guy is real man?
Most Helpful Girl
Well there are certain things I want, but I have to be realistic. I work with the person, I don't change him, manipulate him, or use him. I want to ask him questions, and get to know him, and try to understand how he views life. I want to know how he views friends, family, school, education, politics, etc. I want to know how he would solve problems. I think understanding a person comes from when they have absolutely nothing, and no one to help them out, and no where to go, What is he going to do from there? More than anything, I want postivity, creativity, and a hands on approach to life. I think a real man should take everything into consideration, then decide where to go. I think a real man should understand his own feelings as well, and decide from there, even if he chooses not to express them. I want someone who works on his weakness', and knows what he needs to work on as a person, while exerting his strengths in a humble way and helping people to realize their full potential.
I am not entitiled or special enough to list all the things I want in a man because men are people. They are not perfect, they have flaws, but more than anything, I think they want someone who appreciates them, respects them, trusts them, and brings out the best in them.
And I don't look for money in a man---that is usually the last thing on my mind when I meet a man, and If I want money, I earn in by working myself, not by expecting someone else to carry me through life.0