I had this happen with a few times with guys I was talking to but most recently it is with a guy I was talking to for a 4 month. I couldn't follow through with meeting him because I was too shy. He was so open but I wasn't. Now when I see him, he just looks at me and just looks sad. Why do guys look sad at girls?
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Because he liked you and wanted to get to know you more. And spend time trying to build a relationship with you.
But you didn't come through because you were shy. He doesn't know that. He's misinterpreting it as "she doesn't like me" or "she wasn't interested enough in me".
This guy took your actions the wrong way and thought that he wasn't good enough to date you. So the 'rejection' took a toll on his confidence and he feels hurt and believes that he'll never have a chance with you.
So of course he's sad about it.3