This guy and I, are friends. He asked me out the other day, but I said no. I asked him why he likes me and he said because you are sexy and I love your long legs when you wear heals. I think he is only physically attracted to me. And get you know what? But I know better and I have class.
How do I reverse this and make him like me for me?
He asked me out to the movies, should I go?
Should I change the way I dress?
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You can not blame him for being honest. In fact, for most men, romantic interest can happen only with a woman they are physically attracted to. The first thing we notice about women is their looks. In fact, often we think that women also like us only for our looks and we spend a lot of time trying to develop a good body, wear good clothes and perfume.
Yes we can like a woman for who she is (intellect, hobbies, profession etc.). But if there is no physical attraction, it can only result in friendship.
So, please do not misunderstand him. What his statement means is this:" I find you attractive, sexy and I can visualize romance and sex with you. But let us go out together and see if we can get along and enjoy each other's comapny first".
Tone down the way you dress, but do not become asexual.1