I am totally unappealing to men. No guy would ever like me. I know this, I'm over it. I just want to be respected now. Like, how nice guys are to really pretty girls. They respect them and open doors for them and such. I don't care if they think I am ugly and don't like me but I still want to be respected and not treated like a piece of trash just because of how I look! How can I get some R-E-S-P-E-C-T?
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Firstly, you need SELF RESPECT. Your negative self image shows that you don't respect yourself enough. If you don't respect yourself, how can you expect others to?
Almost anybody can be attractive to some people, especially if they act as if they're attractive. Whether you're very fat, have unusual features, are disfigured have a strange voice etc. you can over-ride it with attitude!
Make an effort to improve yourself wherever you can, get involved in things that interest you, especially if they bring you into contact with other people. Treat others with respect too!
Concentrate on the things that are already good about you (just as we all have faults, we all have virtues!), show this side of you to the world.