OK, so I had been trying to hit on this girl for quite some time, I think about her all the time, maybe because when I'm with her, she makes me feel like I have a chance.
But then I see a picture of her in Facebook, not even with another guy, she is just with her family, smiling, and she looks so innocent, but she still looks amazing, her hair is long, she is wearing a goofy hat, she has a leather jacket, she looks so skinny, her smile makes her look happy.
And my brain just tells me, dude, look at her, she is too much, she has the world, how would she ever like you, you have no chance, she is too much for you, look how pretty she is, you have nothing to offer her, you are not rich, you are not a model, you don't even dress as cool as her, how can you land on that, just forget it man.
But is because every day we are bombarded by people's ideas that girls that look like that are above you, that you do not deserve them unless you are Vinnie Chase or someone like that, and we guys believe it.
I used to have a crush over another girl, she also had that I am happy face, and she also dressed cool, I told a friend, you her, I like her, he told me, yeah I like her too, but I think she is too much for me, he told me that, I felt bad he felt that way, and I felt bad I felt the same way.
We are not even trying to marry these chicks, sometimes we just want a little taste, you know, just know what is like to be in heaven, just a memory to remember when we are old. These girls look so happy and if they wanted to land a celebrity just for one night, they can, they know they can, and that gives them reassurance, that makes then know they are enough, and don't have to worry about that anymore. They don't have to be with a celebrity because they know they can. They can just occupy their mind in whatever they want because they feel worth it.
How can one even get these girls, they live in the same houses we do, they work in the same places we do, they make as much money as we do, they are the same age as we are, yet we feel inferior, we feel we can't have them, it is insanity.
We feel that even if we give everything, even if we get the nice job, the nice house, the nice car, even if we go to Africa and save 1000 lives, these girls, they are valued more.
Something must be done to awake us
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It's like cars: you probably can't afford the Cadillac in the shiny ads, thus you'll have to be satisfied driving a secondhand compact or SUV.
The day you have have a problem in choosing whether you spend your cash on a Porsche or a Corvette, they'll line up to be the first with you.
Is the Cadillac any bettter than an SUV? if you want to shine and be envied yes. If you're in a difficult off road situation, the shiny new Cadillac will let you down, the secondhand SUV will get you through.
The Porsche or Corvette might be stolen before you get to drive 5000 mi in them.0