Sometimes I just go out to a bookstore or downtown and the girls dismiss me. It is kinda depressing, to be honest. I just walk down the street and they just whip out their phone and put it up to their ear. Tonight this girl literally ran away when she noticed me looking at her. Jesus Christ...
What especially hurts is that I don't even say anything to them, so it's gotta be my appearance I guess. I used to think I was a good looking guy but now I'm starting to doubt myself. I've started to just wear headphones to somehow make myself feel better, like a "I wasn't going to talk to them anyway so it doesn't matter".
I'm kinda going crazy because I've never had a girlfriend or even any girl that has shown a strong interest in me. Maybe if I'm this old, I should get a strong reality check? I don't really know what to do, any other guy dealt with something like this?
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Distract yourself - have fun, hang out with friends and schedule your days really busy until the feeling numbs and you can think straight again.
Usually takes about a week, through in the midst of it it feels terrible.0