I am 16, little, looking like 13, not good in sports or anything alike. I recently found that I lack any confidence. Even if I was good looking, I think I would still find myself to be confident around people. I was thinking of working out, but I don't think that will help too much.
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Fake it till you make it.
I'll be 20 in July. I look like I'm 12. So...congrats, you look older than me. But the thing of the matter is...if you don't give a damn about it, it's much better. You'll grow into your looks. One day, you'll like looking 3 years younger. My dad is 57 and looks 29. So...you can imagine how it was for him growing up. But do you know how awesome he feels now? He has shaggy pitch black hair, all his teeth, no beer belly, he's fit, and active, and enjoys going out fishing and mountain climbing. All his 50-60 year old friends are fat and gray and can't do anything because their bodies are old.
So...shush your face. You look 13, not 12 like me. And in the future, it'll be better. So fake that confidence until you're actually confident. It works. It's all psychological. So do that. Ready? Go.2