People do compliment my body quite a lot, but it's mostly girls so it's kind of disappointing that I don't get that much attention from guys even though girls think I look nice. Some guys have looked and complimented me but older men seem to look (sometimes they're even in their 30s and 40s lol) more than guys my age. I wish guys my age looked at me more, and when they do I kind of appreciate it. This may sound bad but once I was hugging one of my guy friends who's really flirty, and he reached down and squeezed my bum and said 'that's quite a handful there' and I felt quite flattered that he noticed. When I wear things (not revealing but nice) I hope that they will notice me and think I have a nice figure. I don't want to be an attention seeking kind of girl though. How can I stop wanting them to look?
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well there's a line between enjoying the attentions of men and NEEDING it to feel good about yourself. There's nothing wrong with the first part but the later is simply low self esteem/self worth and that is something you can work on by accepting who you are as a person and loving yourself the way you are and not needing others opinions to boost your self esteem.2