I feel really awkward asking this but..i'm attracted to wearing thongs. Don't care what gender they are for really but its kinda my dark secret. I've never told anyone, don't plan on it either. Just want to know what a girl would think if she found a thong in her man's room or saw him wearing one.
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My ex boyfriend wore girls thongs. He had a draw filled with them and he kept it from me for months, whilst wearing boxers throughout that time. He then told me and he got really upset, thinking I'd leave him over it but because I loved him so much, I accepted it. To me, it wasn't a big deal really. I'd prefer his love for thongs over finding he had a huge criminal record or something! A lot of the time, it didn't bother me but then he got too comfortable and would wear them like during and after sex, just walking around in them and that just made him look less masculine to me and I love masculinity. He'd even try to encourage me to go shopping for thongs with him. I tried to support him in it as much as possible because it was what he loved but I did eventually tell him that I decided I didn't like it anymore. I was comfortable in knowing that he still wore them, I just didn't want to see him prancing around in them. He understood but whenever we had an argument, he'd always think it was because of the thongs but it never was. I didn't let it bother me too much because I loved him for him, not a piece of material. I never did and still don't see why he loved wearing them so much but if that's what makes him happy, then go for it. He told me to keep it a secret and I have despite having a rough break up.
I'm personally a very supportive and generally nice person when it comes to relationships. If I love someone, I can hardly judge them anymore because I love everything about them, including their imperfections. So I think you need to find a girl who's very supportive, very understanding and caring, then you shouldn't have a problem. If she really loved you, then she should accept it. She may become distant for a while in order to think about it but when she's decided, everything should go back to normal. Try not to let her find a girls thong in your room, it'd look like you're cheating on her! Tell her before that can happen. If she left you over it, don't give up. There'll be women out there who don't mind it or it could be a turn on for them, you never know.
In my personal opinion though, I didn't really like it and I just didn't understand and neither did he. He said he found them comfortable so I told him to get male thongs instead of girlie ones but he said the girlie ones reminded him of me and turned him on which I thought was strange. :S If I had to choose, I'd choose a guy who didn't wear girl thongs. Or if he really loves thongs, wear male thongs at least!
It's surprisingly common though. Just google it and you'll come across hundreds of men who wear them and some of their wives saying how they like it even! Even some guy at where my ex boyfriend worked wore them! You're not alone.1