What were you guys talking about? It may not have "come out of nowhere".
I care way more about personality. Looks are a bonus, for me... not a standard. I've dated guys that I didn't think were attractive because I really liked their personalities. And the more I got to know them, the cuter they became in my eyes. For a while, anyway :-P haha!
It means us girls aren't just interested in the way a guy looks. We look for things in his personality too. There's no point in dating a guy who's handsome but treats people badly and has bad characteristics. His looks won't be enough to make up for his sh*tty personality.
in general tho, when we say that, we try to emphasise on the value of a guys heart. we love a guy with a stunning personality. its also reflects on his outer appearance- somehow makes him more physically attractive. looks will fade one day, personality is there to stay.
in my opinion, a real man is defined by his capacity to love<3, not by the size of his biceps
It means just like it sounds ... looks aren't everything. Basically it's like saying that there are other important factors when choosing guys. If the guy is gorgeous, but a jerk, then he is not a good catch. However, if you have a decent looking guy who is great inside as well, then you have the perfect catch.
A good personality and behavior , as well as charm all make a person more attractive.
It doesn't have to come from the physique exclusively ;)
It goes both ways, someone who isn't a nice person, acts like an ass will be seen as very unattractive to a lot of people and the looks won't even matter that much anymore, even if they're really good-looking.
Its just crap girls say, when have looks not mattered to girls? How many girls who are 7 have you seen with guys who you think are 2? Looks are everything, how many girls would give a guy time of day if they didn't find him attractive. BS! Of course looks matter. Again how many girls who are 7 have you seen with guys who are 2?
Read other answers on GAG and see how many mention looks. Some girls simply delude themselves somehow they are better than guys because apparently looks aren't everything to them. And yet if she had a choice between a very attractive guy and an average looking guy who would she chose?
Also many girls would simply say that to make their friends feel better. It is absolutely 100% not correct, looks are everything. That's the first thing we see in opposite sex, that's the first things girls see and what. And if you want to take that literally is a blatant lie, just BS. She probably simply said it to make you feel better, to boost your confidence.
Personally - I don't buy that statement. There is SOMETHING about an individual that attracts you to them. There has to be something that is attractive. Looks may not be "everything" but they sure are something...
It means looks aren't everything. They're important but it's not everything