I'm pretty short, 5'4" and am self-conscious about my height so have been wearing 3-4" heels every day since I was a teenager. I also usually dress up for work...wear heels and tights with dresses (mid-thigh length). I get some looks from men...not much though (especially not white men..and I'm white)...
But the past couple of days...I've been wearing flat sandals...and look what I consider bummish...but feel like I've been getting more looks from men...and have been getting more greetings...even though I look not so good...but again...the attention is mostly from black men...
Which...I don't mind that the attention is from black men, but I'm sort of wondering why this is...are white men just not interested in me?
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Maybe you look more approachable when you aren't dressed up. Black guys generally like white girls, so they'll try their hand at it. Also, if they are players, they'll go after the bummish type of girl because she is an easier mark than a girl that is put together.
Do you not live in an area that has plenty of white guys in it? Do you hang around a lot of black people or black men in particular?
It could depend on your answers or how you look and your vibe could make it seem like you prefer black men anyway. In which case, white men usually steer clear. That's just a shot in the dark though.0