Im a female, and I like my hair short (almost boy short)…
I have been called Butch before… Yes I'm not a "girly girl" I don't mind lifting weights, playing in rain, mud and what not. Nor do I mind shooting a snot rocket, or hocking a loogie, obviously I wouldn't do either on a date or anything like that but I'm a runner it comes with the game. I don't plan to change who I am just maybe some things to avoid doing wearing or what not. Thanks for the help!
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Can I ask your overall frame/build?
First of all, while being called Butch may not be very sensitive, remember you're allowed to dress and style yourself and behave how you want.
But if you want to -not- seem 'butch', then you need to limit or offset masculine things.
If you have a more masculine frame, you can't change that, but be aware that's one masculine item right there. 5'0 95 lb women don't get called butch as often as bigger ones, all other things being equal. They can 'pull off' more 'boy' style without seeming like a man.
If you want to have a masculine haircut, you probably need to do more things to convey 'femininity' then you would otherwise. Wear body conscious clothing, add a touch of makeup -always- not just once in a while.0