Why do guys find "goody two shoe" girls intimidating or less attractive?

Why do guys find "goody two shoe" girls intimidating or less attractive?

How can you get shy around goody two shoe girls?

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If not shy, how come they are seen as unattractive?

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What I mean by goody two shoes is girls who play by the rules, girls that after first meeting them they give guys the impression that they are innocent and can do no wrong they are also virgins.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm actually attracted to those kind of girls, but in reality, they aren't super fun to be around. I guess I'm considered a "goody two shoes" guy since I don't drink, smoke dope or do gay things like getting my ears pierced. The reason you can't be around a goody two shoes girl too often is they will act like your mom and lecture you about every wrong thing you do or say. For instance, I was with one of these girls during a conversation and I said something like "I really hate G----, he is a cocky d***hole who hurts others to get what he wants". Next thing you know she is giving me a happy happy joy joy lecture on how it is wrong to say bad things about others because it might hurt their feelings. Stuff like that is a major turn-off and I can't be with someone who wants me to act like a perfect angel all the time.

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What Guys Said 7

  • Any kind of fanatic about sexual behavior is someone to be avoided, whether it goody two shoes, or baddy no shoes...

    usually people who broadcast their orienttion to everyone around, no matter what it is, are unbalanced, and not going to be fun to be with.

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  • Because breaking the rules is a lot more fun. Goody two shoes seems kind of naive and timid to a fault. Taking too much risk isn't a good thing. But being overly cautious or blindly following the rules without ever questioning them shows lack of guts and lack of conviction.

    To each their own, but goody two shoes just seems kinda boring to me. If it goes too far it even gets kind of sickening sweet and makes me want to barf.

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  • Personally, I prefer a girl with two shoes and wouldn't care to be seen publicly with a girl who preferred only one; good OR bad.

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  • I don't find those type of girls unattractive.

    From my point of view I like being good but I can do things that bend the rules or even break them on occasion but nothing searious. Trying to live up to the expctations of someone who never goes outside the rules would be tough even for me.

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  • i prefer the goody two shoes type, seeing as I am SOMEWHAT the same. I don't play by the rules, unless they make sense. I am a virgin myself, so eventually having sex with another virgin will make the experience more comfortable for me.

    i'm not like most guys, I guess.

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  • "goody two shoe girls" tend to not put out and be less fun to hang around with.

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  • They're not intimidating - they are less attractive though, because they are less likely to put out and have sex.

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What Girls Said 3

  • I personally blame the Madonna-Whore Complex. Look it up on tvtropes.org

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  • I would think they would like those types instead of feeling intimidated by them.

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  • because they think they won't put out

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