I have one of those bras with slits inside to put the silicone fillets in. It looks good with the fillets in and looks bigger, but I don't want to come across as fake so I don't know if I should wear the bra without them. Girls do you wear push-ups or the ones with fillets? Do you (girls and guys) think wearing them seems fake?
I don't wear them just cause I feel happy and content with my own size. I'm 34B but I've never felt the desire to have bigger ones. I do think it's a bit fake and false advertising but then again, so is make-up and a lot of other stuff people do to make themselves look better. If it makes you happy, go for it :)
Trust me guys wouln't be happy and even be turn off. Guys who like you will be happy with your bra size believe me. But if you present your assets as something they are not, it wouln't just come of as fake, but negative too. Majority of guys wouln't be happy. Silicon filelts are NO NO. If you want to wear push up bras for whatever reason, just make sure they don't look like something they are not.
No guy will ever turn you down for your bust size.
I actually prefer smaller breasts and there are many guys out there like me. If you wear a bra that makes you bigger it will just disappoint the guys who thought you had large breasts and make you more self conscious. You will find someone who is happy with the way you are. In turn you will feel better about yourself and you won't feel the need to be bigger.