So I'm filled with self-conciousness and its because of the way I was raised and my home environment.
I get spooked when women look at me. I can see in their eyes they see everything about me. they're so observant.
and because of the way I was raised I get so self-concious and think what the hell is she staring at me blankley for. I mean when I look at a womans eyes you can't fool them with frontin any insecurities you have they see everything.
now I got self-doubts lots of them about feeling my true value.
what do I do?
and how is it women are so confident. I mean its like they have nothing to fear.
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i think your being paranoid, women aren't espers and can't see through your soul, like guys girls are the same, they only see the surface at first glance and the first impression, the rest is just guess work and intuition, guys are just as observant as girls by the way, and both genders focus mainly on each others bodies and first impression
if your nervous about the first impression part just act naturally, being conscious about it will just make you act up and look stupid or weird/creepy, so just loosen up and relax, acting natural goes a long way :)
also, women aren't that confident, we have plenty of insecurities and are also very self conscious, but in public we act confident, some actually are but it doesn't make them any better, it just makes them have a lot of pride and respect in themselves, so don't be afraid of women :P3