I've done the whole hot-or-not/badoo thing on two occasions and my rating is either 8.something or 9.something. I assume people are being nice (even though they say they weight it on the voters trends in terms of harshness or kindness), so lets say an 8 at most.
I'm fine with this. I get more than enough attention and random compliments and I have much more important things going for me but I'm pretty sure the guy I'm with now thinks I'm just OK looking and that's the opinion I value most right now (other than my own).
So how can I gain two points on the looks scale? Should I become a mild version of one of those body-builder girls? Should I go down the fake hair and eyelashes route I'm seeing a lot of these days?
Naturally my looks are classical and my build is slim but well proportioned. How do I get more sexy into that? I think now I'm too lady-like. I've been trying to grow my hair naturally instead of extensions but it's taking forever.
Sorry no pics. Don't even have a profile pic on this site.
So I'm not going to post pics of myself but in terms of body this pretty much looks like my body now: link which I know he thinks is too skinny but "ok".
Maybe if I upped the exercise and was more like this: link it might get me closer to 10?
The majority of guys would pick body one over body two. The exception would be some (not all) very/fit and strong guys who hand around with people trainit all the time and have grown to prefer a trained look too.
Based on what you mentioned in a comment I'd guess skinny but okay is code for he likes girls with boob jobs. I don't share his view (nor do I like blondes).
There really is no universal 10. To get beyond 8 requires natural beauty and style and being of the -type- of the person judging.
For me, for example, blond 10s don't exist. All 10s are brunettes or redheads. That's MY taste though.
I wouldn't worry about it. Since those are average based systems, and everyone has different tastes, it'll be nearly impossible to actually reach a 10. If you're scoring that high, then plenty of people have already voted you as 10. In fact, if you scored a 9.something, then a significant number of people had to vote 10.