I've done the whole hot-or-not/badoo thing on two occasions and my rating is either 8.something or 9.something. I assume people are being nice (even though they say they weight it on the voters trends in terms of harshness or kindness), so lets say an 8 at most.
I'm fine with this. I get more than enough attention and random compliments and I have much more important things going for me but I'm pretty sure the guy I'm with now thinks I'm just OK looking and that's the opinion I value most right now (other than my own).
So how can I gain two points on the looks scale? Should I become a mild version of one of those body-builder girls? Should I go down the fake hair and eyelashes route I'm seeing a lot of these days?
Naturally my looks are classical and my build is slim but well proportioned. How do I get more sexy into that? I think now I'm too lady-like. I've been trying to grow my hair naturally instead of extensions but it's taking forever.
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The majority of guys would pick body one over body two. The exception would be some (not all) very/fit and strong guys who hand around with people trainit all the time and have grown to prefer a trained look too.
Based on what you mentioned in a comment I'd guess skinny but okay is code for he likes girls with boob jobs. I don't share his view (nor do I like blondes).
There really is no universal 10. To get beyond 8 requires natural beauty and style and being of the -type- of the person judging.
For me, for example, blond 10s don't exist. All 10s are brunettes or redheads. That's MY taste though.1