Most girls are obsessed with makeup and want to look beautiful, so I'm wondering if guys care if the girl is cute, pretty, hot, or sexy as much as we do?
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We do, but since we don't have the luxury of being picky, we tend to rate our success with a woman based on the likeliness a woman will be able to accept the way we look -rather than choose what we actually like, you know, unless we look stereo-typically super mega handsome.
For example there's no way I'm going up to the most beautiful girl sitting on a bench, why? She's what I call "stuck-up hot" where there's no point in even trying because she gets hit on all the time, has heard every line, seen every approach, and isn't interested in someone who stopped by just for the purpose of showing interest. -No point in being friends either, you end up a tool.
I would much rather approach a more modest girl. -A shy one even, someone without the shield of their own beauty blocking intelligent conversation and new events. Hell. I'd rather they'd approach me, but we all know most women aspect men to do all the hard work.
Anyway, I certainly care. -But for a man of my caliber, someone who's best trait is his mind rather than his looks, because the world is cruel, I don't get the opportunity for it to matter very much.2