I'm a devout Christian, logical thinker, and a total nerd. I look for these attributes in a girl; I feel like to compromise on them would be to go against who I am.
Certainly, I don't want a girl with the exact same interests as me... but I do want a girl who shares my values, understands my thought processes, and enjoys some of the same nerdy things I enjoy. I've yet to meet a girl like that. I can find a Christian girl. I can find a nerdy girl. However, I've yet to find a girl who is both of these things.
Am I looking for too specific a girl? Should I compromise and settle for a girl who shares my values but nothing else? Or is such a girl out there, a girl for whom I should wait?
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We are very alike from what you write here :D I'd say, also from a wordly view, the Christian part is most important. If you don't share those basic ideas, you won't get along with each other.
The nerd part is also very important to me. Copper and Helium sit in a bar. Gold comes in, "A U" they shout at him. My wife wouldn't have understood this one but by now she got used to it :D
Helium comes into a bar. The bartender says: "Sorry, we don't serve inert gases." Helium shows no reaction.
Don't expect a woman ever to understand your logic. Men and women just don't have the same way of understanding logics, therefore better strike out this part.
Search for a Christian girl at first. As long as she can live with your nerd site and accepts your logic (given you also accept her), that's already very good.
And now go for it. I'm one of those Christians who believe, that God gives us a choice on who we marry.3
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