I'm a pretty attractive girl. I've gotten called gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, even "a perfect face and body." (I'm not trying to sound full of myself by the way) I'm pretty outgoing, and I play sports, so I've got good runners legs (I've been told.) It doesn't bother me that I don't get attention from guys, but I was wondering, what don't I have that other girls do? I'm a very nice person to everyone, and like I said I'm outgoing, but sometimes I'll only talk to guys if I either have to, or just to be nice, never to flirt. I mean sure guys have liked me and I've had two boyfriends, but it seems that guys don't even notice me at all. Or if they do, it's as a friend. I look like a Hispanic version of Ariana Grande (people tell me I look like her and Selena Gomez...) So why don't I get much attention from guys?
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"I'm outgoing, but sometimes I'll only talk to guys if I either have to, or just to be nice, never to flirt."
And there's your problem. Plenty of guys like you and/or are attracted to you, but if you act like you aren't interested in them, or don't respond to their interest in you, then those guys are just going to move on to another girl. Why would they waste their time on a girl who isn't interested?
You say you're outgoing, but it sounds like when you start getting romantic thoughts, you get shy and lose your confidence, and shyness is most often not perceived as shyness by others, but rather as DISINTEREST, and sometimes it even makes the person seem conceited. If you are giving off that vibe, then, sure, guys are going to avoid you, because they feel they've lost before they've even begun.
What you need to do is maintain your confidence, and start flirting with guys you are interested in. You do that, and suddenly everything is going to start changing for you.2