ok so I didn't know how to word the question better but basically if I see a girl that walks by and has like nice boobs or a nice butt or whatever I'll usually tell my boyfriend" oh look at her butt " or something like that and he'll usually agree that it's nice and then we'll move on and I didn't really see a problem with this since I'm very comfortable with my relationship and I know that just because he looks doesn't mean anything but recently a couple of my friends have been telling me that that's weird and that it looks like I'm trying to get him to like other females because I don't want to date him anymore or whatever which is certainly not the case, so guys if your girlfriend did this would you be weird-ed out and think she was trying to get you to like other girls or would you be fine with it?
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I've never had a girl do that before so I would find it weird, but not wrong. I would find it weird because it's not what I am accustomed too. I'd rather have a girl check out another girl and let me know that she's checking out another girl than my girlfriend to say, "Man, that guy is so f***ing hot." I've had a girlfriend when I was in high school that when we were walking around the school waiting for school to start. Sometimes her best friend will walk with us and her friend pointed out that our librarian (also the male varsity soccer coach) is really hot and then my girlfriend told her with me standing right next to her, Oh I know! I'd let him rape me any day. She said rape because she was under the age of consent at the time.
So, if you were checking out a girl, I'd find it weird at first and wouldn't exactly know how to respond since I would probably think that you're trying to find a way to get mad at me, but then again if you were my girlfriend and we knew each other as well as you know your boyfriend, then I would have grown accustomed to it and wouldn't have a problem with it at all.
Let's be honest here. Guys check out girls all the time. Even when they are in a relationship. Girls check out guys all the time. Even when they are in a relationship. Only difference between the two sexes is that girls will check out their own sex while guys will not haha.
Obviously it would be rude to check out a guy with your boyfriend and act as if he wasn't there while checking him out, but if you're checking out a girl and then telling your boyfriend about that very same girl. There's nothing wrong with that. It's human nature to admire beauty.0