it's funny how this question is meant for girls to answer, yet some bitter guys have managed to post an answer... And surprise, they claim women only care about looks, while men don't. Pff..yeah, right.. Men don't care about looks. If men don't care about looks, then I have the ability to fly.
Looks matter. I'm not saying we only want guys who look like models, but a guy who looks like he takes good care of himself is more attractive than a guy with greasy hair, and bad teeth, and a 3 weeks stubble. Also helps if he doesn't look like a potato who spends all his free time on the couch.
whoever said looks doesn't matter is lying, looks are very important. I have to be attracted to the guy in order for anything to progress. He doesn't need to be extremely good looking, he just needs to be appealing to me. That coupled with a great personality would have me hooked.
For me personally, looks is one of the first things I look at. Literally. If someone is attractive physically I'm much more interested in them if they were talking to me than if they were unattractive.
But looks differ for everyone. Boys I find unattractive, my friend ends up dating or having a crush on, and vice versa.
I believe for both genders it does. But looks is subjective ..the guys I am physically attracted to and like are not those who are considered good looking by my friends. Very good looking guys to me are meant to be admired from far not to be in a relationship with.
When I like a guy, the looks are some part of it...I am one of those people where it's more the personality... Now don't get me wrong here, I do look at looks too, but not on purpose. When there is a guy with a great personality, but not cute whatsoever, it's hard to think of like kissing that person and stuff... I REALLY wish that I did NOT think that way, but if there is not physical attraction I can't help it:/ please don't go off and say that you don't have to think that way and so on and so fourth, because it's like my mind that's messing with me like "eww, kissing that?" And "what are your friends going to think if y'all start dating" and it's annoying me so much! I truly honestly wish that I didn't think that was and that I didn't care what others thought, but that's my stupid brain for ya... Sorry this is kinda long... And kinda went way overboard... Oopsy:)
It depends on how she was raised and what she is looking for in a relationship. Guys look attractive in different ways. Some look attractive by the way they act too(thus the confidence claim many women have).
A guy can physically be attractive but look totally unattractive because he is a sissy. Insecurity can lower a guy's attractiveness very significantly. But if a guy is happy all the time and feels good, people can naturally be drawn to him when he is humorous and such. People want to feel good, and those who already feel good about themselves instantly attract all sorts of people.