However, up close girls don't seem to want to look at guys. You seem like you can see a guy from a mile away and thus you've observed him before he sees you and thus he doesn't think you acknowledge his presence. And when you girls actually have the balls to make eye contact with us (ok, at least with me) you quickly look away and thus we do not get the impression that you were looking at us to admire us.
...while writing this I seem to have had a personal eureka-moment; I've pretty much obsorbed a "you're a pervert if you look at me"-mentality from girls because of this. I think I've perhaps cracked why I don't approach girls during the daytime, even despite being able to pick up on their little flirting signals.
That being said, I prefer looking since I'm still kinda inclined to belive that girls do not want guys looking at them
I personally am a tradition breaker. I think its an aquarius trait cause we're rebellious. So I like females approaching me. It shows they have confidence jn their beauty & also have a rebellious sside, because guys are usually the ones going after girls.
I prefer looking. I feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at me.
I want to look at my guy, but I think he gets uncomfortable when I do, and doesn't know what to say if/when I compliment him. Meanwhile, I'm not crazy about people looking at me, and yet he loves looking at me and inspecting every little thing about me, even while I'm asleep. It gets him to a point where he feels sort of protective or responsible for me, I think. Anyway, it took some getting used to the idea that he'd want to look at me, and it took him a long time to send me any sort of picture of himself. A funny thing...
I guess what I'm saying is that it just depends on the individual's personality.