I get this a lot. That I don't look like a Mom and a lot of people wouldn't have guessed I am one unless I tell them.
(I don't dress sexy unless I have an occasion to go to. I dress figure flattering on a daily basis)
What does a "Mom" look like?
This is always shocking to me.
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To most people they have pre set notions of how someone in a particular role should look like and there's no denying that thanks to the society they live in, their mind set of what they want to believe and topping the list is their own insecurities.
I don't get judgmental and if I find a mom (or dad) who looks younger / well maintained it's a reason to compliment them :)
So I say s**** those who judge, do what you want, feel good about yourself, teach your kid the same.
Just if you want a description, for general (insecure) people a 'mom' means someone who is
1. Post preg flab on the stomach and / or hips and / or butt even if not fat AND/OR
2. Does groceries and cooking the whole day or if she's a working woman, looks hassled and discusses kitchen and kids the whole time AND/OR
3. Is demure and looks the way 'THEY' expect i.e. not in vogue clothing etc AND/OR
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