Thought everything was fine until I caught him on a dating site, yahoo messanger, web caming, just looking up women. I've even told him that if he didn't quit them I would put myself on there as well and I would have a chance for him to look at me. He said he would stop and begged me not to. Well caught him again in just two weeks. My self esteem is crushed and I'm not heavy. Love how he tells me he's lucky to have me and I look amazing, but he still looks at women on the internet. I understand men look but I have a problem with the choice of going and looking them up. I've reached the point I feel like his words aren't the same as his actions.
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It's been 20 years. He's probably bored with you and thought some harmless fantasy might be enough. He probably doesn't want to lose you though, because 20 years is a lot to give up, even if you are bored.
You two should see a professional therapist.1