What I mean is what kind of man do you want to have with you for the rest of your life what kind of man or woman do you want to be with described their personality physical appearance personal attributes etc.
A man who is something of a lone wolf. Someone who's not preoccupied with relationships and love, someone who has higher goals. Someone who is not loud, but is secure enough in himself to not be a braggart like so many men are. Someone who loves me and can let me have my way sometimes, but who knows when to rein me in. Someone who does everything in moderation -- someone who doesn't drink very much, and who doesn't smoke or do drugs. Someone active, who likes to take care of himself. Someone who is not overly concerned with his physical attractiveness -- his attractiveness is a byproduct of his lifestyle. Someone secure, but not arrogant. Someone who can be gentle, but would not be considered sensitive. Someone who is a gentlemen, but not just for me. For everyone. Someone who is strong enough to fight to protect me but who is level-headed enough to try to use words instead. Someone whose actions speak louder than his words.