How can I stop being insecure about my lack of height when I go to bars/clubs?

I'm not usually insecure about my lack of height in normal public settings but in bars/clubs are a totally different situation. I'm only 5'4'' so it's not hard to find girls who are taller than me, and where I live there are a lot of tall women around. Add to that the fact that they wear heels to bars and clubs and they end up towering over me. I just feel insecure and comfortable being a really short guy in a club with lots of really tall women. Tomorrow is my friends birthday and we are going out to a club that's full of tall women. How can I be more secure an comfortable with myself?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • i love short men! So id approach

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What Girls Said 2

  • Own it

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  • Invest in those shoes with hidden heels.

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What Guys Said 1

  • It's hard because women HATE short men, especially the attractive ones, I would try to act like it didn't matter, like don't talk about or say like, "hey you like short guys, or I like tall girls."

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