There's this guy who has wanted me to be my boyfriend since June. He's taken me out to dinner at least 10 times, he bought me three birthday presents and he's very sweet and respectful. However, I have given him a chance and no matter how many dates we go on, or what kinda gift he gives me; I don't like him.
Everybody is like, he treats you like a princess, he's a fantastic guy, he does so much for you! But, the reality of it is no matter how many dates we go on, or what kinda gifts he gives me, I can't get past how he dresses and his of physical fitness. This is the part where everybody calls me a shallow bitch. Really? To me I don't think I'm a shallow bitch, it's called preference! I'm going to college to study fitness and personal training. I want a man who takes care of his body. Besides that he dresses like a gangster, Big baggy pants, long shirts, thug like style. I hate the way he dresses! When I'm with a guy I wunna get that natural high feeling when he approaches me! When you see the person you like and you get all excited seeing them? I feel turned off when I see him. We should not go out! He deserves someone who is going to accept him for who he is and won't want to change him (that's not me)! He's not my type and I'm really honest about it to my friends and they call me a shallow bitch!
Some people like to go out with blonde haired girls, is that shallow because someone prefers something physical over another? I'm on the verge of telling him I'm bi curious and I wunna start talking to girls. But, that's practically the truth, except I'm leaving out the part where I'm not attracted to him.
What should I do?
I posted this question explaining how everybody calls me a bitch and what kind answers do I get? that I'm a bitch? WTF!
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It was very rude of you to accept 10 dinners and the gifts when you know you don't like him. You knew after one date, don't lie. You're not a very nice person and you should be ashamed for having taken advantage of someone who is clearly fond of you and putting forth a lot of effort to gain your affection. Quit being a user.2
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