So I am pretty excited because this saturday the guy I like is coming to my house swimming. He's never been to y house and we've never hung out before (I mean a few other people will be there). But I am obsessed with looking great for him. I'm thin so I look fine in a bathing suit but I am scared of my hair after I swim. It is really awful, I can't explain it but my pool hair is not pretty. And I am paranoid he is going to think I'm ugly or gross or something.
If he likes you then it won't matter if your hair is wet..
I'm pretty sure that guys are more interested in a girl who's up for a bit of fun in a swimming pool without worrying about her appearance, over some beauty queen who runs back in her house to find a mirror, or is afraid to, literally, get her hair wet!
don't worry about it...maybe after you get out of the pool before you like hang out and stuff (like before it dries) run in and wash your hair really quick and just put salt spray in it. then it will look natural still but cleaner. what you definitely don't want to do is make a big deal about not getting your hair wet, that's lame.