I feel a bit weird having to come online for advice but I just don't know what else to do anymore. Yesterday I was at my partners mums house & was using her laptop, as I went to type something in all these online escort websites came up. At first I thought nothing of it but then I realized they had been looked at early hours of the morning so I asked my partners mum when she had last gone onto her laptop & she said she couldn't remember. Knowing I wouldn't find any of her history over the last week or so I looked down it, all these escort websites had been looked at & some girls even viewed. I haven't yet confronted him as I know this will cause a massive argument. On top of that the history said he had been messaging an ex too, I've always had confident issues which make me fin it extremely hard to trust people as I always have felt like I'm never good enough. This has knocked me back even more & I'm now worried I'm not going to get answers as he will just be mad that I had even gone down the history. Am I worrying too much? Is this just what some men do? I'm so confused & upset at the moment.
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well it's possible that he's just looking...
but frankly the fact that he's messaging his ex makes me think that he's not just looking. to me I would ask him. it's not like you were snooping it just came up (since he didn't make any attempt to cover his tracks) so he needs to explain himself. I wouldn't be overly confrontational as much as I would just bring up, 'hey, I was on your mom's comp and all these escort sites came up. what's up with that, and don't b.s. me?"0