My personal favorite is when they say they are so Christian and then say a guy has to be X height as a condition... that's really incredibly shallow. So if I am 5'6 instead of 5'9 that makes me less of a person? That's basically what they are saying... like geez, sorry God didn't make me taller. Not really my fault.
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If I'm being completely honest, until I came on here I didn't even know that
girls care about a guys height or that men cared about a womans hair length.
I mean, I could careless about a guys height. it's a stupid thing to care about.
That's just my opinion, I think most preferences are stupid. I mean, I get that
being physically attracted to a person helps and I suppose it's a nice thing
to be attracted. However, wanting someone to be tall or have long hair, is
beyond wanting to be "attracted" to someone. You're REALLY narrowing your
field there, by having a list of requirmenats that a person has to meet before being
considered good enough to date. It's really sad that the dating world is like that,
it really is! I don't have preferences, I never have. It's more of a cosmic universal
thing that draws me to someone, it's a connection thing. That's what matter's to me!
Also have to say, I don't think you're whining. I think you're stating how you feel
about something that's unfair and stupid! And, surprisingly enough, you are allowed
to be upset and state how you feel!1