I never thought I was average looking I always thought I was slightly above average. This was reinforced by the fact that I have always recieved a fair amount of male attention, enough to prevent questioning my looks. However I have been recently told that I am seen as average looking which confused the hell out of me.
I decided to do the unthinkable and post my picture online for it to be rated. And the results were just as it seemed, everyone either thought I was average or ugly looking.
I thought a lot of people were unfair for calling me ugly becasue I am not that bad looking but I felt conflicted. I have recieved male attention in the past and it wasn't becasue of the way I dressed since I wear baggy clothes. I have noticed that guys always checked out my face.
Now I am trying to accept that I am average but its difficult. When I try to accept it I feel crap about the way I look and think what's the point of trying to dress up or making an effort when I will only be seen as "meh she's alright".
So have you accepted that you are average looking if you think that you are?
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Just look at it this way... being average beats being downright unattractive!
and besides, I'm sure there is at least one person that finds you to be the most beautiful girl he's ever seen.. and that's at the least!
The way you act rubs off on people, and if you let this affect you to the point where you're disappointed in your looks, then people sense that and will most likely view you as average or less.. as oppose to if you're confidently walking around like you're sure of yourself you tend to come off as more attractive... without being too conceited of course because then that comes off as ugly.1