Guys, do women's facial upper lip hair bother you?

And no, not the kind where it's all course and thick; but the kind where it's thin and only noticeable if you were close. Would it bother you to kiss her if she was attractive too?

Dat slight peach fuzz LOL.

Im just wondering because a lot of women have this problem, so go through waxing or bleaching it.

But say some girls don't do that.. would it bother you?


Most Helpful Guy

  • No, actually I think it's really sexy. And I really like it where it's noticable, not necessarily coarse and thick but a wispy thin "ladystache" that you can plainly see on her upper lip.

    • Lol ! Well that's a first c: thanks for your honesty

What Guys Said 2

  • It's natural and therefore normal to have the thin fine, almost invisible hairs. By far most women have it, and also on other parts like chin, jawline and lower lip. Usually it's very fine and practically invisible, like yous say only noticeable if you're standing close. I also noticed some women cake up their face so much, the hairs just disappear, but a caked up face is just ugly.

    You could do waxing, or maybe laser treatment, but I'm not really bothered by it. You can read the following link for more ideas and views on this: link

  • Its not THAT big of a deal if you can't see it but I personally find it unattractive. If its really visible its a HUGE turn off in my opinion. It stems from the fact that facial hair is a man like attribute. Straight men aren't turned on by overly masculine qualities. From a biological perspective we look for the most feminine girls because it shows fertility and health. Traits such as large breasts and small waits are found to be attractive because those physical qualities are by-products of estrogen. Same thing for women, they look for broad jaw lines and physical fitness because those are by-products of testosterone.


What Girls Said 2

  • As a girl, I feel "ANY KIND OF HAIR ANYWHERE THAT DOESN'T BELONG", should be taken care of. Girls should know better than to even leave a FRAGMENT of a hair on their upper lip...Very unattractive and a real turn off to any man. Of course a man should be "bothered". When you are out there in the dating world, everything counts..even the hair on your face. After a girl is married, then that is a different story.

    • LOL well apparently this was a question for the GUYS. So your opinion doesn't matter because you don't speak for what bothers all men because they all are different. And you must be pretty self conscious for that matter if you think that all guys will bother to look at any fragment of hair on your face

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    • You say you are vain then say you know what turns us on... Your veins run of vain, and the moment you say you are smart we automatically think the opposite. As for me a little hair carries humbleness something @Paris13 will never understand.

    • @lolipop1 and @Tormentarian, come to my office, I believe you both woke up on the wrong side of the bed. No more comments, I will not comment with rude and crude comments. The Question was asked, I answered it, who cares about your hair as well.

  • I made the decision to stop removing it due it being time consuming, and frankly a pain in the arse in general to remove due to my very sensitive skin. I have brown hair, so you can see it if you are close enough, and I wear very light makeup so it's never really covered up. My boyfriend noticed it esterday and pointed out I had a moustache. I asked if it bothered him, because I can barely see it or feel it myself, and he just now sees it six months after I decided to stop removing it. He said it didn't- he just thought it was cute, but was trying to be funny. We actually had a good laugh over it. If it's only a little bit of peach fuzz, I don't see why they would be extremely bothered by it. In fact, in the novel "Madame Bovary", one of her lovers actually considers "the slight dark down upon her lip" to be endearing. Don't see why that can't be true and a relevant opinion in the modern era.