I'm a black woman, light brown skin with blue eyes and sandy brown hair that can have a reddish look sometimes. I have been told that I'm "exotic" mainly because not many black people have blue eyes, it's very rare. I remember wearing contacts while in high school because females would call me weird looking and even until this day most ppl, especially whites, thinks my blue eyes are fake. I'm always asked the question "how did I get blue eyes?" "Which of my family members is white", I get attention and get put on display like a zoo animal and I find it uncomfrontable at times. Most men compliment my looks but I always get negative and hateful remarks from females. Do other women have looks that's said to be "exotic"? Does exotic and beauty coincide or is there a difference between the two?
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Exotic, is any look that is different from what we are use to, but appealing to us at the same time. Otherwise people would just call you weird, instead of exotic. Any look a guy isn't use to could be exotic if he likes it. There aren't many Asian women around here, and guys think they look exotic. If we had a big Asian population they would stop being exotic.
The other women are jealous of you. Women are always tearing down women they are intimidated by. This is why it is so hard for women to be friends with each other.1