I ran into an acquaintance (girl) at a friends party recently, and in her state of intoxication she started lecturing me on why I'm single. She wouldn't stop going on and on about how her fiancée told her that guys hate it when girls play with their hair (I do this often), and that I should cut my hair because it's "too long" (it reaches my tailbone). As terrible as this sounds, I don't really care about her opinions, but that one specific thing stood out amongst her slurring... so do guys actually hate when girls play with their hair?
No, I've never even thought about it, and I look at girls a lot. I'm definitely not a perv or anything haha, but I guess I'm one of those guys who says/thinks "Damn she's hot" more than the average guy. I think you shouldn't read too much into it.