I'm tired of being a nice guy and always being sweet to someone girl. Getting a girlfriend is tough, girls want to talk to me and tell me their stuff but not go out with me. So I think getting laid will just make me feel better. Any tips? Bar chicks?
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Your update has a lot of questions. Not being a 'nice guy' can be hard if you've spent your entire life being one. I guess the easiest thing to do is be kind of selfish, kind of pushy. Poke fun of her, but not too much. Like maybe poke fun if she does something embarrassing, but don't go so far as to call her fat. Unless she really is fat and she's bugging the hell out of you. Be dismissive if you feel like she's wasting your time. Trusts your instincts on this one. Many women want attention, but few deserve it. If you feel like she's toying with you, she probably is; move on.
Don't think of a single woman as special. Play the field; don't fall into the trap of one-itis where you focus on one chick. You don't get with the one chick? So what? There are billions of women on the planet, why would you get fixated on one? Don't let her think she's special either. Making her feel special can be important later on, but not when you first meet her. Don't buy her stuff. She wants you to buy her dinner and you haven't had sex yet, ditch her and keep looking.
As for not letting her treat you like a girl friend, what the f*** do you care about a chick's dreams? What the f*** do you care if she bought a new dress or new shoes? Or some guy she met? If she tries to talk to you about those things, talk to her about a chick you saw with big boobs or a cool explosion you saw in a movie or the latest additions to your porn collection. Also, on average, you shouldn't listen to women talk about what women want. They usually don't know themselves, and are gonna tell you some bullsh*t they saw in a teenie bopper movie like Twilight or something stupid. Fuck that.
As for an escort, that can be tricky depending on where you are. It's definitely easier if you're near a major city than not. The Erotic Review is a site dedicated to reviewing escorts and stuff. The best advice I can give on this is to take it slow and take your time to find what you want. And make sure you understand it is strictly business. Don't expect to fall in love with the chick.
Oh, and one more thing. These rules tend to apply to here in the US. If you were going to a place with many beautiful women like Lebanon or Sweden or whatever, some of the rules would be different. But not the ones like playing the field and don't develop one-itis.
Hope that helps.0
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