So I just moved and am attending a new different high school now, I have been at this high school for a month and I notice that only ugly type of girls will right out hit on me, and it happens every day. I notice that the pretty type of girls only look at me and they don't open up to me unless I start conversation with them. AND NOT TO BRAG, but I am a pretty attractive guy, blonde hair, blue eyes and great personality.
Do the uglyish girls only right out in open hit on me cause they can't hold back their attraction for me and cause im new, so they will just right out hit on me? and do the pretty girls not ask me anything cause they feel shy or intimidated? THANKS FOR LISTENING
Because women no matter if they're a 10 or 2, want the same guys. Women only like about 10% of the world's men. Society never looks down on a woman who feels like she's entitled to a top shelf or even a average looking guy, but they look down on average, and ugly guys who feel like they're entitled to having a smoking hot or even a average looking girl. If a guy who isn't rich with flawless looks , He will about 9 times out of ten be more than likely accused of "aiming too high" but if a woman , from a woman that's a 10 to a woman that's a 2 has standards that's astronomically high, society will be okay with that and encourage her to never settle for less.
First off no girl needs that label of ugly. And then to answer your question. Ugly girls probably see you in their league. So take a moment to check yourself out and re-analyze your life choices. Haha. Those uglyish girls give the best loving.
I think that because you are new, they want to speak with you first and see if you are interested in them... or the cheerleader pretty popular type. Most pretty girls want to be approached by the guy so... if the pretty girls carry a conversation with you that lasts over 5 minutes... maybe your as cute as you think you are.
Less attractive girls need to approach because they need to compete with the attractive girls. Attractive girls usually get hit on often so they don't feel like they need to put any effort to get guys.
Maybe just "pretty girls" find you "uglyish." Simple just like that.
Oh yeah, your sparkling personality is really shining through
Maybe you should give an 'ugly' girl a chance and talk to them? It is possible that you two could get along very well and you won't think that seh's so ugly anymore. Just because you don't find them attractive doesn't mean that their are ugly.
For the record the fact that you are not attracted to a girl does not make her ugly. With that being said the girls that you do find attractive might not see you as attractive the same way that you don't see some girls as pretty. Some girls might be shy but others could be used to getting hit on and so they don't feel the need to initiate flirting.
Attractive women are more likely to have men show interest in them, ask them out, etc., and thus, have less motivation to make the first move themselves.
Women who get less attention from men are more likely to be motivated to make the first move themselves, or at least to position themselves so that a guy will get to know her personality (since she feels her looks don't make her stand out a lot as a potential partner to men).
That said, you may want to re-evaluate how attractive you think you are. Most people tend to go for people they perceive to be of similar attractiveness to themselves. You can write off one or two girls as "reaching for the stars", but if its a bunch of girls, its more likely that you're in the same "league" as they are.
There always a sense of intimidation from attractive people. The prettier girls won't approach you because they don't feel confident enough to approach you. Ugly girls have nothing to lose; they are ugly. If they rejected, they will expect it. They figure why not? They might get lucky.
This is life man. The good looking girls will always have guys come after them. They can then pick and choose which guys they like. So, they don't have to initiate the initial contact and conversation.
The not-so-attractive girls don't have this luxury. So, if they want to be with a man, they have to make more of an effort to initiate contact with him.