Since there is so much pressure on people nowadays to be perfect and slim. Do you worry that you aren't good enough because you can't live up to this impossible ideal?
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As a female, I understand where you are coming from. I used to be really self conscious of my body, I'm on the thicker side (according to magazines and the media), always have been. Guys never used to talk to me because all the other girls were trying to be models, my leg was like two or three of their and that was appealing lol. So I want to tell you this, it does not matter how you look as long as you are healthy. Once you are healthy then you can worry about if you like the way your body is or not.
Once you realize that you are an healthy individual, realize the damage that all these people do to themselves to seem like something out of a magazine, the women and men in those magazine are airbrushed and enhanced (cosmetically/surgically) to the point where they don't look like themselves/ who they were before in person.
Love yourself. Love your body, this is you. The only you there is. Don't loose your identity trying to be something you are not. If you have stretch marks embrace them, most REAL women do. You have some love handles, don't stress it, most women do. Your lips are full, love em, some people pay to get all of that.
I'm still thick but I'm a bit more athletic than I used to be only because I had a wake up call to be healthier than I was at the time, that is my only motivation when it comes to my body. To be healthy. And honestly, I can't picture myself being a skinny girl with no boobs and a super flat washboard stomach. I'm real, I like to live and although I like to be healthy, I'm not going to spend every waking day of my life working out or saving to get the perfect butt or something while the joy that is life actually passes me by. There is way more important things to worry about, as long as I am HEALTHY.0