i don't know I I compare myself to others around me especially to my best friend
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It's completely normal. Especially in our childhood to teenage years, the only foundation we have for developing our psyches are our peers, family and the media.
Think about it...almost everything about you is acquired through interacting with the world and people around you. You learn from an early age that saying mean things repels others, so we learn how to appeal and draw others in by taking tips on how to be courteous and kind. Girls learn from their girlfriends how to dress and do our makeup. We learn what is appropriate for ladies our age to wear, listen to, look and act like. It's all psychological and sociological. It's quite interesting, actually. Take no shame in it. We all do it. That's life. But if you find yourself comparing, judging, or scrutinizing yourself to the point where it's affecting your life negatively, you may need to re-evaluate HOW you see yourself and others. In the end you can't be anyone but you. No matter how hard you try. And why would you?1