Being beautiful is usually considered to be a good thing. But I was thinking, and it ma also have it's downsides:
-Struggle to make female friends due to jealousy
-Struggle to make female friends due to them worrying their boyfriend or the guy they like will be attracted to you
-Difficulty with dating as most guys might be intimidated and the guys who do approach beautiful women are likely to be shallow and have big egos
-Difficulty keeping a relationship because of partners jealousy and trust issues due to him worrying other men are attracted to you
So I have a couple of questions about this
1. Do you think being beautiful is a blessing or a curse? Why or why not?
2. Do you agree with the points I made? Why or why not?
3. Do you have any other points you'd like to make about the downsides of being beautiful?
The more details the better! This is something that has been in the back of my mind for a couple of months now and I really want to know what other people think. Thanks!
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You are right in all those points. Its very difficult for me, near impossible to approach a beautiful woman but there's no reason for it. Im not super handsome but im decent looking. I give myself an 8. Some girls might say 7 and another a 9. I am a little shy/nervous at first but thats just cuz i really like whoever im with. I loosen up pretty quick tho. Im a really fun/sweet/romantic guy and i probably miss out on some amazing relationships because of it. Im not trying to brag, sorry. Anyway, guys do have a hard time approaching a beautiful woman. I think its also guys think theyre stuck up and dont want to be regected, especially in public. (that goes for the other point too). The mindset is she could have any guy she wants. Why would she be interested in me? I agree guys with big egos are more likely to approach a beautiful woman cuz their egos tell them, why would she not be interested in this amazing gift to women? I could see jealously being a problem too cuz the guy you're with dont want to lose you and he might have in the back of his mind you're waiting for the bigger better deal to come along. If you are talking about yourself, have you had any/all of these problems? Hope my comments are what you were looking for.1